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Coach Zia's avatar

As someone who’s dealt with repetitive complaints in leadership contexts, I feel Moses’s exhaustion deeply. But this passage is convicting: my anger at people’s immaturity can’t be allowed to distort who God is. James 1:20 connects perfectly here: ‘human anger does not produce God’s righteousness.’ I need to check whether my responses to frustration are revealing or obscuring God’s actual posture toward people.

‘Previous experience doesn’t override current instruction.’ That line landed. God worked one way at Horeb, and Moses assumed the same approach would work at Kadesh. But God is personal, not formulaic. How many times have I assumed God would move the same way He did before, rather than listening to what He’s saying now?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

I appreciate this work and the thoughtful way you integrate the theological significance, Kevin.

What practices have you found helpful for distinguishing between godly correction and correction that flows from our own frustration? I’m thinking about contexts where rebuke is necessary but needs to reveal God’s heart accurately.

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For myself, I tend to take Paul's advice: "take every thought captive and subject it to Christ."

So I'll sit with it for a time and ask, how would Jesus handle this?

Sometimes, the answer is that rebuke is absolutely warranted. And sometimes (very occasionally) it even needs to be a little harsh. But much more often what's needed is gentleness. Understanding. Compassion. Love. For those are of God.

The most important part, though, is twofold. First, never rebuke out of emotion, especially anger or frustration. Only rebuke when I am calm and at peace (I kinda feel like Yoda saying that, lol). And second, it is almost never appropriate to correct in public. One of my favorite leadership maxims is "praise in public, correct is private." And there's a second maxim that's almost as important: "attract blame, but reflect praise." It's amazing how things change when you adopt the attitude that if things are going right it's because of my team and if they're going wrong it's because I failed my team.

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